Favorite Childhood Movies {& a Movie Review}

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I don’t know why it came up, but just recently Mark said, “I’ve never seen your dad laugh as hard as that time we watched City Slickers!”

It’s true. It’s also true that he laughed that hard every time we watched it.

My family has always liked watching movies together. Actually, we still do. My parents have gone to all but one of the movies we’ve taken Annalyn to, my brother went to see Pitch Perfect for the second time so I could see it last fall, and just this past weekend my husband, brother and dad went to see Lincoln during my mom’s tea party.

When I was a kid, we watched all the usual kid movies: Beauty & the Beast, Aladdin, Little Mermaid, Bedknobs and Broomsticks, something about a car that talked, something about a shaggy dog that talked.

Of course, there were also the musicals: The Sound of Music, Mary Poppins, Guys & Dolls, The Music Man, On the Town, Singin’ in the Rain, Holiday Inn.

[And then there was the time my brother went through a Danny Kaye phase. I don't really remember much of that, but I never hear the word "chalice" without remembering that the chalice in the palace has the brew that is true.]

As we got older, my family watched lots of other movies together, enough times that we knew the songs and the jokes and the right time for a bathroom break. Some of our favorites included the Indiana Jones movies (the first and third), the Back to the Future movies (the first and third), the Star Wars movies, the Romancing the Stone movies, Three Men & a Baby, the aforementioned City Slickers, The Secret of My Success and Doc Hollywood. Apparently we had a thing for Michael J. Fox back then.

One of our favorites was elevated to a whole new level when my brother and I were in a school play. Though we’d watched Wizard of Oz lots of times, we fell in love with the story even more when I played Glinda the Good Witch and my brother accompanied the musical during my senior year of high school.

That’s why I was so excited to attend a screening of Oz the Great & Powerful.

Oz: I don’t want to be a good man . . . I want to be a great one.

I wanted Oz to be a great movie; I really did. It wasn’t.

It had some good parts, though, and seeing it on a giant screen in 3D was certainly an experience! (I even ended up sitting next to a well-known movie critic from one of our local TV stations. That guy was as entertaining as the movie!)

Here’s the lowdown: Oz is colorful and kind of whimsical and occasionally funny. It’s also surprisingly intense for a PG-rated movie and has some fairly adult themes and dialogue for a PG-rated movie.

Then again, maybe I don’t know what a PG-rated movie is supposed to be like. So I’ll say it this way instead: I definitely won’t take Annalyn to see this one. She is, after all, the same girl who informed me a week ago that she only wants to watch the songs from The Lion King, because the movie has scary parts. So realistic flying baboons with crazy teeth lunging at me through the screen? Probably not going to work for her – or, really, any young children.

My favorite part of the movie (which I saw in 3D) was actually the opening credits. They are awesome and made me question my life-long dislike of 3D. (Then the flying through the air and falling down the waterfall happened. And I remembered why I don’t do 3D.)

The actors were hit or miss. Michelle Williams and Rachel Weisz were pretty good (and, in case you’re wondering, I’ve decided that I’d like Weisz to play me in the movie of my life. Not because I’m like her. But because I want to be. But I’m not.). Unfortunately, Mila Kunis seemed unbelievable and then way over the top. Although her black leather pants – though completely unlikely to exist in 1905 – were pretty hot.

And then there was James Franco. YOU GUYS. I just don’t know about this guy. I wondered: Was he TRYING to be cheesy? Is this supposed to be campy? Because he wasn’t quite THERE . . . but he didn’t come off as sincere either. Almost but . . . not quite.

{And don’t even ask me how I felt when I discovered, while doing my very serious blog research on Wikipedia, that Robert Downey, Jr. was considered for the part of Oz. Don’t. Even. Ask.}

The story itself was okay. It seemed weird, after seeing Wicked, because the story was completely different. But it wasn’t bad. Well, except for how the Wicked Witch becomes the Wicked Witch. That part seemed a little far-fetched. {But probably only because I’ve seen Wicked.}

But the parallel of a person from Kansas getting sucked through a tornado and landing in Oz, then going on a journey with a ragtag group of companions was nice. And Zach Braff as the monkey was funny – and pulled the best performance out of Franco, honestly.

I did miss the music. I knew it wasn’t a musical, but I guess because I’ve seen Wizard of Oz so many times – enough to have even the background music memorized – I anticipated hearing the Emerald City song when we saw the Emerald City and Follow the Yellow Brick Road when we saw the yellow brick road.

So, in summary, Oz wasn’t my favorite movie and I won’t be taking Annalyn to see it. BUT it was fun and colorful, and I’d definitely take an older kid to see it.

One last thing, though. Do you remember Glinda’s dress in the original movie? Do you? I do, and you want to know why? BECAUSE I HAD TO WEAR IT. Or, you know, something like it. Whereas Michelle Williams got a GORGEOUS, simple, NOT pink and NOT fluffy gown.

That is not fair. Not fair at all.

Will you be going to see Oz the Great & Powerful?
What were your favorite movies as a child?

Tips for Taking Your Child to See Her First Movie

Around the holidays, my family (my parents and siblings, that is) often tries to go on a “Christmas date.” That usually involves a movie and a stop at our favorite hole-in-the-wall Mexican restaurant. My mom decided that we should keep this family tradition alive the Christmas after Annalyn was born, and she assured me that my newborn would be “fine, just fine!” in the movie theater.

So less than three months after she was born, I bundled up my tiny baby and hauled her into a dark theater.

Rather than sit near the front on the end of a row, as I’d hoped, my dad had picked seats near the top of the large theater. In the middle. Annalyn and I gave it the old college try, but this arrangement just did not work. (Just like I expected. AHEM.) Just minutes into the movie, Annalyn needed to be fed (Who picked the matinee that fell during her afternoon feeding?) and then, as babies do, she immediately proceeded to fill her diaper.

I rushed to the bathroom and fumbled with the diaper changing table. I don’t remember for sure, but I’m fairly certain this was the first time I attempted to change her diaper in a public restroom. Flustered and frustrated only begin to describe my state of mind at that point. While my family enjoyed the mystery of National Treasure: Book of Secrets, I stewed on the bench outside the theater, trying to quiet my fussy baby long enough to hear a snippet of dialogue or two.

Fast forward three years, and this time I was the one suggesting a family outing to the movie theater – with my daughter in tow. Thankfully, bottle feedings and diapers weren’t an issue, but I was still nervous!

We decided to take Annalyn to see Tangled on Christmas evening, although I just about canceled on the drive to the theater. Little Miss Tired & Overstimulated was cranky and nervous about our outing, I shouted [empty] threats the whole way there. Amazingly, she calmed down as soon as we walked into the multiplex and behaved like an angel throughout the entire movie-going experience.

Here are a few things I learned:

1. Choose your movie wisely. Until the moment the animated movie began, Mark was convinced we were seeing Yogi Bear. We debated between the goofy bear movie and Disney’s latest film, but in the end I chose Tangled (and apparently forgot to tell Mark!). Partly because I suspected Yogi bear might be full of questionable humor (at least for my three-year-old) and partly because I know how bored Annalyn gets with live action shows.

Besides, my favorite actor from my favorite show was the voice behind one of the main characters!

2. Make sure the movie’s not too scary! Knowing how Annalyn has reacted to other Disney movies (they are long! and scary!!), I interrogated questioned all my friends who’d seen Tangled. They reported that the “bad guy” wasn’t that scary but warned me of a few frightening parts.

3. Take snacks. As we left my parents’ house for the theater, I poured trail mix into a ziploc, added some dried berries and grabbed a tiny bottle of water and sippy cup. Then I wondered if she’d notice if I got M&Ms for myself…

4. Visit the restroom before the movie starts. Remember that tiny bottle of water? Well, I was pretty sure someone’s tiny bladder couldn’t hold more than that! (Plus, I know well my daughter’s desire to visit every public restroom in the metro.)

5. Choose an unpopular show time. Our decision to go to the movie on Christmas night was sort of last minute, but it worked out well. We had our pick of seats and the small crowd meant I could relax. If the worst happened, at least we wouldn’t be bothering too many people!

6. Be prepared for inappropriate previews. I don’t remember exactly what movie’s trailer we saw that annoyed me, but one of the (many) previews showed characters using language that we don’t condone in our home. And another one was a little…intense…for a toddler. If I’d been on my toes, I would’ve been ready to distract Annalyn with her snacks or that trip to the restroom during the previews.

7. Remember her favorite blanket/toy/baby doll. Believe me. It’s just easier that way. (And warmer, if her lovey du jour happens to be a blanket!)

8. Expect questions. And giggles. And more questions. If you’re taking a preschooler to a new movie, just plan on whispering answers to a litany of questions that can’t possibly wait until after the movie. “Why is that horse running? Why is that lady mean? How long is her hair? Why are they kissing?”

9. Lighten up. Assuming you’re taking your child to a kids’ movie, you won’t be the only anxious parent there. And odds are, if your kiddo giggles too loud or wiggles too much, those other parents won’t even notice.

10. Have fun! There’s something magical about watching a movie – and especially your first one – isn’t there? The screen is so big, the music is so loud, and the characters are so life-like – even when they’re cartoon characters. This is a special moment that you’ll never forget. Plan ahead, be prepared and enjoy the moment!

What was the first movie you took your kids to? Or, if you can remember this far back, what was the first movie you saw in the theater?

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The Danny Zuko Complex

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Recently, my good friends decided to watch the three seasons of Veronica Mars on DVD. I was excited, of course, to have someone to discuss the many attributes of one of my very favorite shows of all time.

I would have been even more excited if I’d been able to watch it with them. But *sigh* it was not to be. Instead, I had to be content with asking every few weeks, “So, do you still love it? Isn’t it awesome?”

At one point, my friend mentioned that Logan, one of the main characters (for those of you unfortunate enough to have not watched it yet), was a real jerk. I said, in my infinite wisdom and maturity, “Just wait. He gets way cuter in season two.”

A few weeks later, my friend – having apparently started season two – said, “Umm, didn’t you say that he was going to get cuter? Because he’s still a pretty big jerk.”

And that’s when it hit me: She was never going to think Logan was cute, because she doesn’t like bad boys.

While I’ve never been so enamored of a “bad boy” that I poured myself into a black leather catsuit, teased my hair and took up smoking, I did take what felt like a big risk at the time when I started dating Mark. As one of our less-than-subtle classmates taunted shortly after our first date, “I can’t believe this! The troublemaker and the goody two shoes? Together?”

Yes, that’s right. I fell for the bad boy.

It’s been quite a while since anyone would consider him much of a troublemaker, but he definitely had some explaining to do back when I got up the nerve to tell my mom about his interesting past. The whole situation was a really big deal back in high school, but that was a long time ago. And I rarely even think of it now.

But after talking to my friend about Veronica Mars and the hot-or-not Logan, I started thinking about this “good girls like bad boys” thing. And I realized how many of my favorite movie and TV characters – the ones I root for and hope get the girl and just maybe wish I was “the girl” – are Bad Boys.

Then I thought back to my [much] younger days and thought of the boy I had a crush on in high school. (Before I started dating Mark, if you must ask about the timeline. But . . . maybe after, too. What can I say? It was high school.) That guy? From what I hear, he’s still playing the part of the bad boy.

What IS it with me? And, I suspect, with a lot of women. Based on the lengthy list of examples I came up with (with the help of TVTropes.org), this idea of a reformed bad boy holds a lot of appeal for a lot of us.

Some actors have even made entire careers by playing this character over and over. Think Pierce Brosnan in Remington Steele, the James Bond movies and even The Thomas Crown Affair. Or Harrison Ford as Han Solo and then Indiana Jones.

Why is this such a strong trend? Why do we fall for it? Why, as Roger Ebert asked in his review of Twilight, “do girls always prefer the distant, aloof, handsome, dangerous dudes instead of cheerful chaps like me?”

I don’t have any answers. And I don’t know that – for me, at least – it’s so terrible for me to admit that Uncle Jesse was way cuter than Uncle Joey and Neal Caffrey is attractive for more than his pretty blue eyes. However . . . when I think about my daughter and raising her with a healthy view of relationships . . . I’m a little worried.

What do you think about this? How do we encourage our daughters to [avoid a lot of heartbreak and] pursue “the good guys”? Do you have a thing for bad boys, a Danny Zuko complex, if you will? (And if you want to play along, who’s your favorite bad boy character?)

This post contains affiliate links. Also, if you’re a nerd like me (go ahead and admit it!), you might be interested in reading about the three slightly different types of bad boys, according to the highly entertaining and interesting and time-sucking TVTropes.org. You’ve got your choice: reformed rakes, troubled but cute, and lovable rogues.

Saturday Review: A Movie Binge

Over Christmas break I watched a LOT of movies. Reruns and Christmas specials just weren’t cutting it, so I took full advantage of the Redbox and even managed to get to the actual theater a couple times. Here’s the review:

Inception: I was all prepared to have my mind blown, per every single Facebook post I’d read about this movie. While I don’t know if my mind was actually blown (Certainly it was not literally blown. That would be gross.), this was a GREAT movie. I really enjoyed it and would love to watch it again. With friends who like to dissect and analyze every little detail afterward. Any takers?

Scott Pilgrim vs. the World: Since I’ve been embracing my nerd-ness lately, I figured why not add a movie based on a graphic novel to my rapidly expanding nerd repertoire? (You know, the one that includes Harry Potter and Joss Whedon? Yeah.) Well, I didn’t love the movie, but I did like it a lot. Michael Cera just cracks me up, although that may be residual appreciation based on my love of Juno and Arrested Development. The movie was super quirky, but a lot of fun. Thumbs up.

Tangled: We took Annalyn to see this on Christmas Day. It was her first movie in the theater, and it was a huge hit. Our whole family enjoyed it, and I’m sure we’ll add it to our video library as soon as it comes out on DVD!

How Do You Know: Smitty and I went to this one because there wasn’t really a movie out that we were dying to see. It was okay. Owen Wilson is not my favorite, but I did like Reese Witherspoon’s performance as a female athlete. And Paul Rudd’s character was as charming as the Paul Rudd my friend Chelley fell in love with back in Clueless.

Step Up 3: I love the original Step Up. I really do. In my line-up of favorite dance movies, it falls somewhere after Dirty Dancing but slightly higher than Save the Last Dance. I could watch it every week. And, actually, after watching this sequel, I was dying to watch it. Because Step Up 3? Not so great. The dancing is amazing, but the story and the acting are less than stellar. Pretty awful, actually. It was disappointing, though I’ll be the first to admit, not surprising.

Salt: When this movie first came out, I read that it was originally written for a man. Tom Cruise was supposed to play the part of the main character. Somewhere along the way (I suppose that would be when Tom Cruise decided he needed to play his crazy self in Knight and Day.), they changed it all up and Angelina Jolie took over the role of Salt. Who IS Salt? Is she a spy? Is she a traitor? Do we really care, as long as we get to watch Jolie kick butt? The action and the story, the idea behind the plot were both good. But I found it to be pretty cold. I love spy movies and action, but I would have liked a bit more emotion from the main characters.

A-Team: I never watched this show when it was on TV, so I didn’t have either a base knowledge of or nostalgia for any of the A-Team references in the A-Team movie. That left me with a group of dumb guys blowing stuff up and cracking jokes…which I don’t mind. But I didn’t love it either.

Easy A: LOVED it! This teeny-bopper movie was smart, sassy and fun. And I loved it. I can’t wait until it’s on cable all the time, so I can watch it whenever I want. You know, like Mean Girls. But better.

Letters to Juliet: I’d heard that this movie was really good, but I kind of wondered if it would be a little, well, dull. I mean, reuniting old people who were in love 50 years ago? It might not sound fascinating, but it was SO good! Sweet and cute and clean – and I liked it a lot.

Karate Kid: This remake was cute. It was also two and a half hours long and a little slow. But, you know, Jackie Chan is always pretty funny. So it had that going for it.

Did you watch any movies over the holidays? What were your favorites?

Saturday Review: Easy on the Eyes Version

Lately – and by “lately,” you know I mean for the past several months – I have had the strongest urge to see movies in the theater. Unfortunately, my budget and schedule are not so accommodating to my various entertainment cravings.

That is where Redbox comes in, of course, and I am always thankful for dollar rentals. Especially when we find ourselves trapped in a rut of renting lame movies!

The good news is twofold. One, the lame movies all had leading men who are, as my title indicates, quite easy on the eyes. And two, we finally got a night out and an actual theater movie – and the movie was great. Here are my brief reviews.

Me and Orson Welles: I’m not going to lie to you. After I watched Zac Efron in 17 Again, I looked him up on IMDB to make sure he was, in fact, of legal age. Since I now know that he IS, I don’t feel [too] weird telling that he’s totally cute in this movie, too. And more importantly (AHEM),  this movie – though a bit slow – was a nice, feel-good story and a pretty educational (at least to me) period piece about theater in the 30s.

Just for the record, though, I have had to re-type the title of this movie twice now, because I cannot bring myself to automatically say “me and Orson Welles” instead of “Orson Welles and me.”

Prince of Persia: The Sands of Time: I think this movie might have seemed better if I’d gone in with the right expectations, or at least the understanding that it would basically be a live-action version of Aladdin. I vaguely remember reading somewhere that it was based on a video game. That probably should have been my first clue that it wouldn’t be a work of art. However, it does feature Jake Gyllenhaal doing his best impression of Aladdin. So there’s that.

Iron Man 2: I’d heard that this sequel wasn’t nearly as good as the first one. I don’t know how it could have been. Not that the original Iron Man was so incredible, but it was so surprisingly good. To me, it came out of nowhere. And I liked it a lot. This one? Not so much. As always, Robert Downey Jr. was fun and I always love Don Cheadle, but the movie was actually pretty boring. Also, Mickey Rourke is super creepy. (So was his character.)

Now for the good movie!

A couple weeks ago, my parents kept Annalyn for the weekend so Mark and I could redecorate her room (a.k.a. move in her “big girl bed” and try not to cry too long about how she used to be a baby). We did that but also took advantage of our kid-free evening and went on an actual date. After stuffing ourselves with Mexican food, we saw Red in the theater.

It was SO good. (And they played seven previews before it, which we both love, so that was a point in its favor, too.)

I’m not saying it’s the best movie ever. But it was fun, it was funny, it was fairly clean, and we had a great time watching it. What more could we ask for?

Several times during the movie, people in the theater clapped. That’s right: APPLAUSE. Granted, this is a movie about retired (older) spies coming back for one last adventure and basically kicking the new, young folks’ tail. And, a large part of the audience in our theater fell into that retired (older) category. But still. The movie was so fun, you just can’t help rooting for the characters so much that you clap when they (and special effects) win the fights and take out the bad guys.

And, as it turns out, Bruce Willis – though bald and old enough to be my father – isn’t hard to watch for a couple hours either. Go figure.

What movies have you seen recently?

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