Weekend Links, 5.18.13

Blergh. I haven’t done a Weekend Links post for three weeks, and that means I have a whole lotta stuff to share with you today! I’ll try to organize it so it doesn’t seem so overwhelming. After all, I would hate for your weekend reading to stress you out!

Encouraging Posts

Deep Thoughts & Important Stuff

Help for When Google Reader Goes Away Forever

Huh. It looks like I’ve been all serious, all the time for the past few weeks. You know me – the odds of that are pretty slim. And what’s coming next will prove that I have spent plenty of time laughing my face off. Because . . . I have a billion HIGH-LARIOUS videos for you to watch.

Fine. Not a billion. But five. In one post. It seems like a lot, but please trust me. You don’t want to miss a single one of these. I’ve watched each of them at least twice, if not several times. Hence the face laughed off.

The best thing about these videos? After I’d already watched them, friends kept making sure I’d seen them. I got tweets, Facebook messages and Skype notices about at least three of these! My friends know me so well . . .


Pumpcast News: Singing Couple at the Gas Station – Why does my gas station not have Pumpcast News?!


Arrested Development Season 4 Trailer – I’m counting down the days.


New Girl Auto-Tuned – This sealed the deal. New Girl is officially my favorite show right now.


Dove Real Beauty Sketches – Men – I’m sure you’ve seen the Dove video, reminding women that they’re more beautiful than they think. Men need a different sort of reminder…


Lip Sync-Off with Jimmy Fallon and John Krasinski – I saved the best for last. There’s no reason on earth why a grown man lip synching to Katy Perry should be attractive. And yet…{just watch it.}

What are the best posts you’ve read and written lately? Please share it with us in the comments!

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To the Mothers: You Are Mighty.

A video was made from my friend Lisa-Jo’s blog post about mothers. And it is lovely. [Click here if you can't see the video.]

Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms. You ARE mighty.

What I’m Into :: April 2013

“You’re in my spot.” I swear that’s what that lion is saying to the other one. As we watched through the glass, the lion already sitting didn’t move, so her friend sniffed and pushed and turned in circles just like my cats do. And finally, she just sat on top of the other lion!

This was about the only interesting animal sighting we had during Annalyn’s field trip to the zoo. Most of the other animals were smart enough to stay inside when the weather dips to 42 degrees.

April was a really full month!! We had the zoo field trip, as well as an Awana program. I had (in)RL and that pesky ebook bundle sale. I went back to Weight Watchers for the bajillionth time and also started wearing a Fitbit, which is an awesome pedometer and health monitor. (I’ll tell you more about that soon.) I enrolled Annalyn in kindergarten, helped throw a surprise baby shower and found a pretty good routine for working at home.

Still, don’t you worry. I had plenty of time for reading, watching and listening. Here’s my April recap:

What I’m Reading:

I’d been waiting to read both The Survivor by DiAnn Mills and Vanished by Irene Hannon for a few months. I love the mysteries and relationships that both authors write, and as soon as I hear they’ve published a new book, I reserve it at the library. It just so happened that both were available this month, and I enjoyed both.

Vanished was my favorite of the two, the beginning of a new series about private investigators. It was an interesting take on the normal cop and civilian team up to solve a crime story, and I won’t lie–reading about a PI made me think of Veronica Mars. Which is never a bad thing.

Speaking of bad things, though…Requiem by Lauren Oliver. Uggghhh. I adored Oliver’s first book of this trilogy, Delirium. The post-apocalyptic YA novel created a world where love was considered a disease and all citizens are, basically, given some sort of lobotomy at age 18 so they can’t love–or feel other irrational or dangerous emotions. Of course, the protagonist fights the man and the system, while also falling in love with an outsider. And though that’s the same outline so many other books follow, this one stood out as original, interesting and well-written.

And then we got to the third book in the trilogy. So many things happened. Lots of things (those pesky FEELINGS) were overexplained while other, plot-important things were left unexplained or vague. And then…THEN! The book wraps up crazy fast with little resolution and then…just…ENDS. It was a disappointing end to what, until that point, had been an outstanding series.

I read about the Dairy Queen series by Catherine Gilbert Murdock in the “If you liked this, you’ll probably like this, too” sections of both Amazon and Goodreads. So, on an evening when I had nothing else to read, I snagged these three books from my library. I didn’t have high hopes for a YA series about a girl who plays football and works on her family’s dairy farm. I WAS WRONG.

This series is, first of all, really funny with great dialogue (the most important part of a novel for me), but it also raises some serious questions and is incredibly moving. And while I still don’t give two cents about football or cows, the main character of this series was so strikingly different than 99% of other novels’ main characters that she has stayed in my head for several weeks now. If you like YA, I highly recommend this series. (And because it’s a few years old, you can probably get all three books from your library right away, too.)

I also bought two books I’d already read (and loved) because the Kindle versions were on sale. There You’ll Find Me by Jenny B. Jones was one of the first YA novels I read after Harry Potter, and I still love it. And am anxiously waiting for Jones to write another book. And goodness gracious, Bossypants by Tina Fey is The Funniest Book I’ve Ever Read. Period. So at 99-cents, I couldn’t pass it up–and I look forward to reading it again many times.

Finally, I would be remiss in my book-talking-about duties if I didn’t tell you this great news. Dad is Fat by Jim Gaffigan, also known as my favorite comedian and the Hot Pocket guy, will be released on May 7. And, not to brag but I’m going to brag, I’m going to meet him at a book signing a couple weeks later. I’m going to walk right up to him and say something so witty that he says, “Oh my, you’re funny. You might even be funnier than me!” and we’ll be fast friends, forever. What’s that? You don’t think that’s how it will go down? Yeah, you’re probably right. But I AM going to his book signing, I AM going to read his book, and I just know it WILL BE hilarious. Stay tuned for an update on that whole thing.

What I’m Watching:

Well, obviously I’m watching a truck load of TV right now. April was a little slow, but May is sweeps and finales, so the drought was well worth it. For more about upcoming finales, read my post from yesterday–and then come back every Friday in May for more chatting about our favorite thing, the TV.

I also saw Admission with Tina Fey and Paul Rudd on a much-needed date night. Simple romantic comedies are hard to come by these days, and we tend to spend our occasional movie nights on action movies (I’ve already got “Date Night: Iron Man 3″ written on my calendar for this month!). So I was thrilled when Mark suggested this one. We’d both read or heard reviews that it wasn’t exactly what you expect and might not even be that good. But really? Tina Fey AND Paul Rudd at his cutest? Come on. We both thought this movie was really good–cute, funny and a little thoughtful. Perfect for date night.

I did watch one other new movie this month, though it wasn’t in the theater. The second I saw a commercial for a Hallmark movie called Remember Sunday, starring Zachary Levi (Chuck!) and Alexis Bledel (Rory!), I set my DVR. Because…HELLO?! Chuck! and Rory! Remember Sunday was essentially a sweet, pretty version of 50 First Dates–except in this version, it’s the guy who has no short-term memory and the girl who falls for him. It was awesome. I loved it. And saved it on my DVR to watch again. I might even watch those dang, tearjerking Hallmark commercials they played at every break. Because I am a sap. Okay? I am. But if you are, too (or if you miss Gilmore Girls or Chuck [or both!]), you should find this and watch it.

What I’m Listening to:

Just give me a reason
Just a little bit’s enough
Just a second we’re not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
It’s in the stars
It’s been written in the scars on our hearts
That we’re not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again

It’s been exactly a year since my marriage fell apart and then slowly grew into something a million times better than we’d ever seen or dared hope for. And just recently I shared all that with you–and then with thousands of women who watched the (in)RL videos. So it’s extremely fitting that the duet from Pink and the lead singer of Fun. has been stuck in my head all month. Just Give Me a Reason” is definitely my favorite song right now.

[Another song that I can't quite get over--but in a totally different way--is "1994" by Jason Aldean. It's just...you guys...I DON'T KNOW. If you don't like country music, just move on, but if you do? Could you help me process this? I mean, I love Jason Aldean. And 1994 is when I started dating Mark, so it holds a special place in my heart. But this song? It's just so...ridiculous. Is he mocking Joe Diffie? Honoring him? I DON'T GET IT.]

What I’m Eating:

Ah yes, what have I been eating? Well, there was the time I re-discovered the chocolate cake in a mug trick. I also made some fun mini fruit pizzas that I’m going to share with you soon. Oh, and I also bought some kiwis–and then realized I had no idea what to do with them.

So, really, I have nothing exciting or important to say about what I’ve been eating.

Best of this Blog:

Happy {Blog} Birthday to Me! And to YOU!
I started the month with my 5-year blog anniversary. Looking back on half a decade of blogging was a lot of fun!

For When You Think it Would Take a Miracle
And then I bared my soul about the miracle that my marriage received last year when we fell apart. Opening up like that was excruciating, but you all were incredibly supportive and some were even encouraged to keep hoping for your own miracles.

Teacher Gift Idea: Brown Sugar Body Scrub
Finally, I shared an easy but awesome gift idea for Teacher Appreciation Day (coming up on May 7)!

And then there were the videos:

If you love New Girl (NICK!! AND JESS!!), and if you love Auto-Tune (um, hello? WHO DOESN’T?), you will watch this video over and over again. Or maybe that’s just me…


Auto-Tune the New Girl

I’m sure many of you have seen the Dove Real Beauty Sketches video, showing that women are more beautiful than they think they are. Well, this spoof breaks the harsh news to men that they are actually NOT as beautiful as they think they are. It’s pretty much hilarious. And…spot on.


Real Beauty Sketches – Men {A Parody}

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Weekend Links, 4.27.13

Whew! This is a big weekend, you guys. The women’s website I write for and work for, (in)courage, is hosting a women’s online conference – and it is awesome. Yesterday’s online webcast about staying in community, even when it’s hard, was fantastic. My reward for enduring seeing myself on video (a.w.k.w.a.r.d.) was the hilarious blooper reel at the end!

If you’d like to watch some moving, honest, challenging, encouraging videos about community – why it’s important, how hard it is, and how it can be so worth it – go to (in)RL. You can register for free and watch the videos until midnight on Sunday.

Now, for some posts!

Instagram’s Envy Effect | Shauna Niequiest at RELEVANT Magazine
This is a thing. This is coming up in conversation after conversation. The danger of the internet is that it’s very very easy to tell partial truths—to show the fabulous meal but not the mess to clean up afterward. To display the smiling couple-shot, but not the fight you had three days ago. To offer up the sparkly milestones but not the spiraling meltdowns.

Great Kids Have Parents Who Seem To Do This Well | Don Miller at Storyline Blog
I’ve noticed something. Kids with parents who are open and honest about their faults seem to do better in life.

5 Reasons eBooks Are My Friends. | OhAmanda
Anyway, a few of my friends (not naming any names, illJay…) don’t get the whole ebook thing. I’ve had people ask, “How do you read ebooks? I’m not technical. I don’t want to read a book on my computer. What if I don’t have an iPad? Why can’t I just read their blog?” And since I’m clearly like a happy puppy when it comes to bloggers’ ebooks, I thought I’d share my [vast] knowledge with you.

On Failure {And Motherhood} | The Cadence of a Conquering Housewife
It’s not that I should intentionally do a terrible job of parenting, it’s that my ideal version of motherhood doesn’t exist.

Excuses for Not Watching The Bible on the History Channel | Stuff Christians Like
“We spend too much time settling Catan and having family devotions to watch TV.”

As I mentioned yesterday (and will mention a few times over the next week), I think you’d love the Ultimate Homemaking Ebook Bundle that’s on sale next week. (You can see more about it here.) But I’d be remiss if I didn’t also tell you about my friend Tricia’s sale at Once a Month Mom. For one day only, you can purchase a year’s subscription to OAMM for just $5/month. Here are the details (and the cutest graphic. She’s right. Ain’t nobody got time for cooking every night!).

My most popular post from this past week by far was quite possibly the hardest thing I’ve ever lived or written. If you missed it: For When You Think It Would Take a Miracle.

And now we’ve come to the video portion of today’s program. And it is outstanding. Earlier this week I shared a video about the evolution of music with my brother. He countered with a video about songs with lyrics that aren’t words. Thus began my rabbit trail for the day into Every. A Capella. Video. I. Could. Find. (Plus this really interesting article about the state of today’s a capella.)

Here are the two videos!

Evolution of Music – Pentatonix

History of Lyrics That Aren’t Lyrics – cdza Opus No. 1

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Weekend Links, 4.20.13

With the horrible things that have happened this week, it’s no wonder I steered clear of most serious articles and gravitated toward the light and fluffy even more than normal. Sometimes reality, this world, the ugliness – it’s just too much. So you’ll see that reflected in nearly half of today’s links. I always love me some pop culture, and this time, that’s about all I could handle.

  • The Downside of Flexibility: A Plea for Must-See TV at a Must-Watch Time | NPR’s Monkey See Blog
    There’s something special about those communal TV moments that unite a generation. For me, the most important part of watching TV is being able to talk about and complain about the show’s characters and dramatic choices and ridiculous costume decisions. So for me, TV works best when everybody has seen all the same episodes and isn’t censoring themselves over potential spoilers.
  • 5 Reasons 3-D Makes Me Hate My Life for 2 Hours | Laura McClellan
    I propose we ban it before it goes further. Just put a stop to it right now. I don’t want it to reach the point where I have to pay $20 per ticket to be in a virtual reality simulator while I watch the next pixar movie. I just want regular D. Good ol’ fashion flat entertainment. Is that too much to ask?
  • Surprise, Your Favorite Band is a Christian Band! Now What? | Patheos
    Ultimately, all art needs to be engaged with carefully, thoughtfully, and critically, and not simply consumed or rejected out of hand. This is true for any artist, regardless of what we might find out about their own beliefs.
  • Pride & Prejudice at 200: Stop Looking for Mr. Darcy! | Ms. Magazine
    What Austen captures in this astonishing moment is the paradoxical extent to which falling in love does not, as one might expect, necessarily involve a relationship between two people. Rather, it often involves a single person and her ideas about an absent body.
  • 2012 Tulip Festival @ Agassiz, BC, Canada

    (And now for the more serious posts…)

  • What Christians Need to Know About Mental Health | Ann Voskamp
    There’s no shame saying that your heart and head are broken because there’s a Doctor in the house. It’s the wisest and the bravest who cry for help when lost.
  • What a Hundred Lifeguards Taught Me About My Calling | Emily Freeman
    Possibility can be as overwhelming as it is inspiring. At first it can feel terribly exciting to imagine anything is possible. You pin adorable posters in super cute fonts to your dream board on Pinterest and actually believe some of them. Until you sprint flat into the wall of your own limits in the form of lack of time, lack of energy, comparison, competition, and distraction.
  • Just Outside the Circle | Amy J. Bennett
    The truth is there likely isn’t some secret inner circle and even if there is, we’re deserving of it–ALL of us are. We just might not be meant for that circle.
  • A Note for Mr. Hillman | Nish Weiseth
    I didn’t know this was a dream I had until someone planted the idea in my head that I was capable of doing it. Sitting in that classroom one afternoon, well over a decade ago, I never would have guessed that my professional title would one day be “Author.”
  • What Do You Do All Day? The Real Story Behind My Niche Blog | Mom Advice
    Even my free time is often accounted for because I share it with you. I try to read four books a month for our reviews and you will rarely find me sitting still when I am watching television because I am usually working on a craft project at the same time for the blog.

Also (back to the fluff), I’d hate for you to miss this oh-so-important trifecta of news:

  1. There’s going to be a sequel to Pitch Perfect.
  2. The new Arrested Development season will launch on Netflix on May 26.
  3. Straight No Chaser has announced their 2013 tour dates (and they’re coming to Kansas City – woohoo!).

Finally, this has been a good couple of weeks for videos. I’ve got three of the best ones to share with you now.


Cups (When I’m Gone) by Anna Kendrick: The perfect happy song to accompany the happy news about a Pitch Perfect sequel. I’ve been singing this song all week.


Patton Oswalt’s Star Wars Filibuster on Parks & Recreation: Apparently, when Oswalt was filming his guest role on Parks & Rec, they asked him to improvise a filibuster (during a city council meeting) – and this is what he came up with. If you’re nerdy at all, you’ll love his proposed plot for the next Star Wars movie. And nerdy or not, you have to admit his dedication to the role and his improv skills are impressive.

(Also, if you haven’t read Oswalt’s post about what happened in Boston, take a minute to click over. Though his comedy is often over-the-line crude, his thoughts here were an inspiring reminder of how much good endures and, in the end, triumphs.)


Every Romantic Comedy Ever: So funny. I do love a good romcom, but I also realize they’re ALL THE SAME and mostly ridiculous.

What are the best posts you’ve read and written lately? Please share it with us in the comments!

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