Happy {Blog} Birthday to Me! And You!

Back in 2005, I worked at an ad agency. After working in the PR department for several months, I’d decided I wanted to transfer to the copywriting department as a proofreader. [Yeah. I'm serious about this nerd thing.]

Part of the transition process included interviewing people to replace me in the PR department. One day my manager handed me a resume to check out, and out of all the applicant’s experience and supposed skills, I focused on the fact that he had a blog.

A blog?! Who has a blog? I mean, really. Who is THAT self-centered to create an entire website about HIMSELF? Who DOES that?!?

Yes, yes, the crow was tasty. [As in, I ate it. I ate crow. Because now I am a self-centered blogger.]

Just so you know, that guy was not self-centered. And he was a great fit in the PR department.

ANYWAY. That was pretty much my impression of blogs until sometime in late 2007. I’d started hearing a little more about blogs, here and there, but I didn’t put much stock into it until my friend Chelley mentioned – oh so casually – that she had a blog.

WHAT?! She had A BLOG?! And I didn’t KNOW?!?

I immediately began reading every single post she wrote, commenting on them and then interacting with her other readers. From there I branched out to reading her readers’ blogs, and – surprise! – it wasn’t long before I became convinced that I, too, needed a blog.

A BLOG?! Who DOES that?! Oh…right…

So in April 2008, I jumped in. And my life has never been the same.

To celebrate the fifth anniversary of that auspicious day, I’ve got a giveaway for YOU. Because let’s be honest. If you weren’t here, reading and commenting and sharing – I wouldn’t be here either. This community, our friendships, the camaraderie – THIS is why I blog.

So THANK YOU. And if you indulge me for just a bit longer, I’ve got a little giveaway to thank you for being here, for reading, for commenting, for coming back – for all of it.

But first I wanted to take a little walk down memory lane.

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A Timeline of This Here Blog

  • April 2008: I started a blog. I went by “Photoqueen,” because I thought all bloggers went by fake names. And, you know, I didn’t want the scary Internet people to find me and kill me.
  • February 2009: On a whim I bought a ticket to the Blissdom Conference in Nashville. I went and I met people and I learned lots. It was scary – and the beginning of a lot of amazing things.
  • March 2009: For the first time ever, I spent money on my blog by having it redesigned. I felt very fancy.
  • August 2009:  (in)courage launched, and I was a part of it. To this day, I’m not sure why they asked me to write for the site, but I will never stop being thankful they did.
  • July 2010: I went to Savvy Blogging in Breckenridge. I got sick from the altitude, met some great people and learned about monetizing my blog. In slightly related news, later that summer, I was invited to be a part of a group of bloggers that call themselves the Sisterchicks. Thanks to the wonders of Skype, those girls are now some of my very best friends.
  • August 2010: I moved my blog from Blogspot to WordPress. Many comments were lost forever, and many tears were shed.
  • October 2010: I quit my job to be a stay-at-home mom and freelance writer/editor/social media consultant. I didn’t actually become a social media consultant.
  • Summer 2011: A couple of my recipe posts blew up the Internet, thanks to StumbleUpon. I thought I’d “made it” in the world of blogging, not realizing that a) none of the people landing on my blog were sticking around and b) that SU traffic would eventually dry up and I would be sad.
  • August 2011: I launched a TV blog. It was awesome.
  • November 2011: I decided to close down my TV blog. It was sad.
  • November 2011: I published an ebook about how to plan a fabulous party without losing your mind.
  • Spring 2012For various reasons, my life kind of exploded. It was crazy good and crazy bad and crazy crazy. And that’s all I’m going to say about that.
  • July 2012: I had my blog redesigned and waved goodbye to the dark red background and apple header I had designed.
  • November 2012: I started working for (in)courage as the editorial coordinator. Yep, I’ll tell you more about this next week.
  • April 2013: I gave away 5 Amazon gift cards to celebrate 5 years of blogging. (Yeah. Scroll on down for that…or keep indulging me and my self-centered blogging…)

After I took a look back on the milestones of my blogging career, I thought it would be fun {for me} to figure out which of my nearly 1,400 posts was the most popular with you all. That led to a rabbit trail of analytics and reminiscing and confusion over the best metric to determine top, best or favorite anything.

I finally thought, “Hey, it’s my party! I’ll go overboard if I want to!” and decided to figure out the top post based on traffic AND comments. Plus a few of my favorites for good measure. You’re welcome.

My Top 5 Posts Ever {Based on Traffic}
Well, here’s the thing. My top 20 posts are almost all recipes. Thanks to carnivals and StumbleUpon and Pinterest, these are the posts that get the most clicks – but those clicks don’t necessarily lead to new readers. So while I can’t leave out my pink lemonade cake post because it has five times more traffic than the second-highest post, I bypassed the rest of the recipe posts and moved on to my other high(ish) trafficked posts.

My Top 5 Posts Ever {Based on Comments}
Except for giveaways. Because counting those comments doesn’t count. Although we should probably take a moment to recognize the hilarity that is my biggest giveaway being for a steam mop. A steam mop! From a girl who hates to clean! (Yes, I did notice the cleaning post up there in the other list. The irony has not escaped me.)

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My Other Favorite Posts I Couldn’t Resist Sharing with You
Look, you guys. Blogging is a weird thing. It’s so personal and isolated while at the same time public and often collaborative. It can be encouraging or discouraging – sometimes both, sometimes in the same day. As I looked back over five years of blogging, I was overwhelmed by the incredible friendships, experiences and opportunities that are a direct result of this blog. But to be honest, I was also a little frustrated to remember all the things I’ve tried and given up on, the ideas I’ve had that didn’t go anywhere, the proclamations and epiphanies that – in the end – meant very little.

So when I started making a list of my favorite posts and realized I had too many and wanted to Link All the Things, I was so happy. I was so happy to realize that at the end of the day, I love this blog. I know it’s obnoxious, all these links, and good grief, shouldn’t my arm hurt from so much twisting around to pat myself on the back?! But that’s why I’m giving you one more list of awesome-to-me posts anyway.

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And finally, the giveaway:

All right, you guys. Thank you for indulging me and letting me go on and on (and on and…) about my blog today. Hey, remember that time I thought bloggers were self-centered? Yeah…

Anyway, for your patience – not to mention your support and friendship over the past five years – I’m giving away 5 $10 gift cards to Amazon.

To enter the giveaway, simply leave a comment telling me about the first blog you ever read.
The giveaway will close next Friday, April 19 at midnight CST.

Weekend Links, 3.9.2013

So I’m sitting on my couch, watching what is apparently a Tina Fey movie marathon (first it was Date Night; now it’s Baby Mama), and wondering how my feet could possibly smell so bad. No, I’m not kidding. They are heinous. In my defense, I was on them for a few hours tonight celebrating my church’s 5th anniversary.

Oh, and did I mention that I stopped at Taco Bell on my way home to get a new Cool Ranch Dorito Taco? Because I did. And it was awful. This is not a taco review, but just in case you, too, thought a Cool Ranch Taco sounded like a good idea, let me save you the 89 cents.

And now that I’ve really lowered the bar for your Saturday morning reading experience, I’ve got some great posts for you (that other people wrote).

YOU GUYS. Sara Bareilles plus Straight No Chaser equals AWESOME. I love this in so many ways. {And the news about an entire album of compilations like this coming from SNC in May? So, so good.}

What are the best posts you’ve read and written lately? Please share it with us in the comments!

This post will be linked to Linky Love at Vanderbilt Wife.

Taking a break

I’d planned to start this post with a joke about candy and getting a song stuck in your head. I was going to tell you how overwhelmed I’ve found myself this season, and how the e-book I’d hoped to launch today hasn’t even been started. I was trying to find a way to confess that I’ve made very little headway with my book proposal while also telling you about the great deals going on at Dayspring this week. Then I was going to finish with a list of my favorite posts from the past year.

But words are hard to find today and normal feels wrong.

So I’ll keep this short and to the point. I’m taking the next three weeks off from posting – and I’ll be back on January 7. I wish each of you a happy holiday season, and I will look forward to catching up with you next year!

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Weekend Links, 11.3.12

Oh, how I’ve missed you, Weekend Links! Normally, going six weeks between link posts would mean an outrageous list of bookmarks to sort through. Fortunately (I suppose), the past six weeks have been madness and I’ve barely made a dent in my virtual stack of blogs to read. These are the ones that caught my eye anyway.

Okay fine! Upon further review, it seems I do have a bajillion links for you. Six weeks, okay?! Here, maybe this will make it up to you. Check out Emergency Compliment. Annnnd you’re welcome.

And because I love you so much, I’ve got the four best videos I’ve seen in the past two months. Enjoy! (Seriously. Click. Watch. You’ll love them, I just know it.)

What are the best posts you’ve read and written lately? (I’m sure I’ve missed a ton!) Please share it with us in the comments!

This post will be linked to Linky Love at Vanderbilt Wife.

The conference is not the boss of you.

Listening to the Legal "LAWsome" Panel at Blissdom

Yesterday in her session about writing what you’re living, Annie Downs reminded us: “It’s your internet!” and “They’re not the boss of you!” As I thought about how to be a perfect conference attender (or not), it occurred to me that the conference is not the boss of me, either. (And for the 99% of you who aren’t here with me this weekend, whatever event you might attend isn’t the boss of you.)

I am far from a perfect conference attendee, despite the fairly high number of conferences I’ve attended over the past few years. I’ve hidden in my room. I’ve forgotten my business cards. I’ve cried when I met famous blogger people. And it was still okay. So, in case you’ve ever felt pressure at a conference or a retreat or a convention, I wanted to tell you something.

It’s okay if you don’t attend every session.
It’s okay if you skip the keynote to call your husband.
It’s okay if you sneak away to take a nap.
It’s okay if you order room service.
It’s okay if you make a second trip to the taco bar.
It’s okay if you stand in line for an hour to meet your favorite speaker.
It’s okay if you cry when you finally get to meet that speaker.
It’s okay if you take home every piece of swag you’re offered.
It’s okay if you leave all the swag with your roommate.
It’s okay if you take notes on paper.
It’s okay if you take notes on your iPad.
It’s okay if you take mental notes.
It’s okay if you hand out all your business cards.
It’s okay if you forget your business cards in your room.
It’s okay if you don’t have business cards.
It’s okay if you tweet soundbites from every session.
It’s okay if you forget what “hashtag” even means.
It’s okay if you schedule posts through your entire trip.
It’s okay if you don’t post for three weeks after the conference.
It’s okay if you make 157 new best friends.
It’s okay if you make one new friend.

You get the picture, right? Whatever you need to do to make this conference (retreat, seminar, convention, annual meeting, vacation) work for you – do it. It’s okay.

What’s your favorite part of attending conferences, seminars, retreats, etc.?

This post is part of 31 Days of Giving Up on Perfect. All month long, I’ll be writing about my fight against perfectionism and my quest to get on with life, already. For more 31 Days, visit The Nester.

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