A Few of My Favorite {Posts} :: Best of 2011

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My week is busy. How about yours? I’ve got coffee with a new friend and breakfast with an old friend, a play date with preschool moms and a lunch date with my mom. What’s on your schedule?

Since this is such a crazy time of year and we’re all going a million different directions, I decided to take a break from new posts until after the holidays. Earlier this week I rounded up my favorite new recipes of 2011, and today I’m sharing some of my favorite posts from this year.

It took a while to collect the posts I liked the most (or that you liked the most – or both). And by that I mean I had to wade through some posts I didn’t love and a whole slew of Big Goals that didn’t exactly pan out like I hoped. (See reading 35 classics, running a 5K, starting a new blog and selling a bajillion copies of my new ebook.)

Eventually I found some keepers, though. Hopefully you’ll find something you missed the first time around or wouldn’t mind reading again. Enjoy!

Now it’s your turn. What have been some of your favorite things this year? Tell us in the comments about some of the great posts you’ve read this year – on your blog or someone else’s!

Blocked.

I have so many great ideas for blog posts. So many deep thoughts and interesting observations and funny stories to share. And yet . . . I can’t seem to get them from my mind and my heart onto the screen.

I can’t seem to write.

I’m not sure what the culprit is. Perhaps I have too much on my mind. Maybe I’m bored. Or could it be that I need to switch up my writing strategy?

“Clean off the desk” has been on my to-do list for about two months now. I can get my entire house organized, but that desk foils me every time! But now that I’m thinking about finding a new place, a new time, a new way to write? I think I need to get cracking on that desk.

Where do you write? When do you write? What do you do when writer’s block strikes?

Saturday Review: {More} Awesome E-Books

A few years ago, someone very close to me had an emotional affair. I will never forget that person saying, “I wish we’d just had sex. Then I could go ahead and get divorced.”

Until that moment, I had no idea what an emotional affair was, much less how damaging it can be to a marriage or family. Amy Bennett knows, because she’s been there. And now she’s written a book about it.

Entangled: A Woman’s Guide – Recognizing Your Emotional Affair, Restoring Your Marriage is an honest look at emotional affairs and practical guidance for getting yourself out of one. Amy uses what she experienced and learned during her own affair to help other women who are struggling with this issue.

Even if you’re not pursuing or participating in an emotional affair at the moment, even if you’ve never even been tempted to do so, this book is a good and important read. It’s not simply a cautionary tale of someone who messed up. It’s a heartbreaking recounting of something that can happen to any marriage – yes, even yours, even mine – and the beautiful story of God’s redemption.

Here’s a summary from the Entangled website:

  • Have you long since given up on the fairy tale of your marriage?
  • Wondering if your husband wasn’t your soul mate after all?
  • Have you found someone else with whom you’re emotionally connected?
  • Do you wonder what an emotional affair really is?
  • Or are you wondering how to get out of one?
  • Is your marriage in a good place and you want to keep it that way?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, I’ve been right where you are. I know first-hand what an emotional affair is but more importantly, I know how to get out. Guaranteed.

If you’re ready for an honest, detailed look into an emotional affair from a Christian perspective this is the book for you. I experienced an emotional affair six years ago and my marriage has been completely restored by the grace of God. Journey with me and see what one looks like, how to get out and how God can meet your deepest need for the love you’re seeking.

To learn more about Entangled or to buy a copy, visit Amy’s website.
 
This is the season of ebooks, it seems. Here are a few other great books my friends have written. Check them out!

Your Best Thanksgiving Ever! This ebook by Tara of Feels Like Home walks you through the planning and preparation of a wonderful Thanksgiving dinner. Her book includes a planning checklist, a grocery list, a checklist for tools you’ll need and 12 delicious recipes. Get ready for the holidays and make this year’s Thanksgiving your best one ever with this book!

OAMM Holiday eCookbook: Tricia has put together an amazing resource for the ultimate no-stress, planned-ahead holiday meal. The eCokbook includes grocery lists, recipe cards, labels, and step-by-step instructions for serving 8 or 16. By cooking in advance and freezing your holiday meal, you’ll be ready for your guests (and way less stressed out!) before they even walk in the door!

Not a DIY Diva: How to Create an Authentically Inspired Life in a Pinterest World: I love that title! It’s so true that our world creates discontent and competition – with each other and with ourselves. Melissa of The Inspired Room has written a book that inspires us to seek authenticity and find beauty and contentment in the home and life we have. Whether you are a DIY genius or not-so-much-one, you’ll find encouragement to live a life that is authentic to YOU.

Are you an ebook reader? Have you read any good ebooks lately? (In addition to this one about planning parties, that is? Haha!)

Affiliate links were used in this post.

Giving Up on a Perfect {New Blog}

Remember when I said I was starting a new blog called Mama Loves Her Shows? Yeah? It was about two months ago. And . . . I’ve decided to shut it down.

Yes, it’s been fun. And, based on the market, I still think it’s a great idea and has fairly solid financial potential. If only I had the desire to put more time and energy into it.

I haven’t found many television blogs focused on women. And everyone knows that niche blogs are more easily monetized. But you know what everyone doesn’t know? Just how much time it takes to build and monetize a brand spanking new blog.

Even if it is a great idea. Even if you do launch it right before the new season of shows begins. Even if you do come up with a cute title and header and font.

When I started this blog, I didn’t know anything about analytics or subscribers. So I didn’t watch, day after day, as my numbers started small and stayed small. It turns out – that is painful. And kind of an enthusiasm killer.

But even more than the slow start and the realization of how much work it would take to really build an audience for my new blog, I realized – almost the moment I hit “publish” – that television is not my passion.

No, I never thought it was. But I thought I enjoyed it enough to sustain an entire blog. And . . . I don’t. I love TV, but I don’t love it enough.

So it appears that 2011 is the year of trying new things only to quit them. (Oh, who am I kidding? That’s kind of the theme of my entire life! But THAT is a thought process for another blog post.)

Soon I’ll be moving all of the posts from Mama Loves Her Shows to a separate page on Giving Up on Perfect. I’ll still write about TV, and you’ll still be able to subscribe. It will just all be in one place, without the pressure of growing and doing more and tweeting and promoting and all that. It will be, you know, fun again.

Have you tried anything new – that didn’t work out – recently?

Bringing Home the Bacon

You may have noticed my posting lately has been sporadic. And focused on a random collection of topics. And full of logos and disclosures and fine print.

Are you annoyed, disappointed or otherwise bothered by the abundance of sponsored posts I’ve written lately? I’m sorry, and here’s what happened.

When I’m contacted about participating in a campaign, I don’t always know right away a) when my deadline is or b) whether I’ll be selected for said campaign. So, as opportunities arose this summer, my strategy was basically to agree or apply to everything and wait to see what stuck.

The result? Eight – count ‘em, EIGHT – assignments, due within a couple weeks of each other. *sigh*

I haven’t forgotten – or abandoned – my pledge to focus on real writing. And I realize – or perhaps I’m assuming – that most of you don’t come here to read product reviews. But since I got myself into this unbalanced (although brief and temporary) phase of blogging, I do hope that you’ll learn about something you might be interested in or want to try out!

And even if you haven’t, I hope you’ll hang in here with me. I have a few more fun (yes, sponsored) posts to share with you next week, and then things should be back to normal around here.

Just in case you’ve missed my non-sponsored posts lately, here are a few.

Giving Up on a Perfect {Summer}
Monday Morning Mmmm: Flag Fruit Kebabs
Mighty to Save?
Daydream Believing and Guest Bathrooms
What Notes {and Words} Do You Keep?
A Mix Tape for the Road
An Afternoon Block Party

And because I’m sure you don’t want to miss all the fun posts on my new TV blog, Mama Loves Her Shows, here are those, too.

My Official Fall 2011 TV Schedule
10 Saddest Series Cancellations EVER
Ideas for a TV-Themed Wedding or Baby Shower
Casts & Characters I Want for Real-Life Friends

Thank you for reading. Still. Anyway.

And now I have a question for you. Are there any topics you’d like me to write about? Hit me with your best ideas in the comments!

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